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Post by WestMidsClaret » Thu Jan 21, 2016 11:06 am

Thanks to everyone that replied to my thread about being a "old/young" Dad on the other site, I couldn't get back on for some reason to post and it wouldn't let me register again! As some of you know Kell and I lost our baby on this day a year ago at 16 weeks and Kell had to do one of the most heart breaking things I've ever seen in my life and give birth to it. Well a couple of weeks ago we went for ,the 12 week scan and everything was fine in fact the baby was really active, on Monday we had to go and see our consultant, obviously we were both extremely worried even more so when he asked us if we'd had a scan that morning to which we hadn't. So off we went for the scan, I have never been so nervous and scared, the consultant did his thing and there on the screen was our baby, heart fluttering away and moving about! The relief for us both was immense! Still a way to go but everything is looking good.
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Post by burnmark » Thu Jan 21, 2016 11:18 am

Congrats WestMids! We went through something very similar in 2012 and it was and still is a truly heartbreaking time.

I'm pleased to say we now have two beautiful girls and I'm sure only happy times will be with you and your wife from this day on too!!

Best of luck!!
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Post by Belgianclaret » Thu Jan 21, 2016 11:20 am

Good luck WestMids - my second is on it's way in May -UTC
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Post by WestMidsClaret » Thu Jan 21, 2016 12:29 pm

Thanks burnmark it really is a harrowing experience, glad you came out the other side with a happy ending! And good luck to you too Belgian. :D

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Post by beddie » Thu Jan 21, 2016 12:30 pm

We have everything crossed for you WestMidsClaret. The very best of luck.
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Post by JBCLARETS » Thu Jan 21, 2016 12:53 pm

Congrats and all the very best luck in the world to you both.
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Post by Claretnick » Thu Jan 21, 2016 1:02 pm

Good luck WestMids, hope you all stay safe..
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Post by WestMidsClaret » Thu Jan 21, 2016 1:08 pm

Thanks chaps, very kind of you.

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Post by minnieclaret » Thu Jan 21, 2016 2:15 pm

Only good thoughts for all three of you westmids.
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Post by WestMidsClaret » Thu Jan 21, 2016 3:48 pm

Thanks minnie :)

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Post by claretdom » Thu Jan 21, 2016 3:52 pm

Good luck WestMids
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Post by Goobs » Thu Jan 21, 2016 4:00 pm

Glad to hear all is going well so far WMC and hope that continues to be the case. We recently lost what would have been our 2nd child during pregnancy and the only saving grace we could find was that it happened relatively early in the pregnancy so we didn't have to go through having to give birth like yourselves and several others we know have.

I know we will both be terrified should we ever find out we are expecting again but I am certain it will not stop us.

Good luck to you all :)
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Post by ClaretTony » Thu Jan 21, 2016 4:11 pm

Only just seen this thread - hope everything goes well for you this time
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Post by WestMidsClaret » Thu Jan 21, 2016 7:38 pm

Thanks Future and Tony.

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Post by MDWat » Thu Jan 21, 2016 7:41 pm

Good luck westmids!
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Post by ClaretAndJew » Thu Jan 21, 2016 7:44 pm

Good luck!!!
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Post by WestMidsClaret » Fri Jan 22, 2016 8:03 am

Cheers boys.

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Post by WestMidsClaret » Mon Jan 25, 2016 2:28 pm

Got to go for a scan because the midwife couldn't find a heart beat! Wish us luck. So frustrating and upsetting!

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Post by Goobs » Mon Jan 25, 2016 2:30 pm

Good luck. Hope everything is OK.

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Post by claretdom » Mon Jan 25, 2016 2:31 pm

Good luck Westmids

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Post by WestMidsClaret » Tue Jan 26, 2016 11:44 am

Thanks. We got an emergency appointment at the hospital and after 5 minutes of trying the sister their found the baby's heartbeat. Phew!
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Post by WestMidsClaret » Fri May 19, 2017 3:28 pm

This is my angel now 10 months old, fully worth the stress!
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The missus has just said she wants another!! I'll be in my 40s :shock:
:D
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Post by Funkydrummer » Fri May 19, 2017 3:32 pm

Wonderful West Mids - there is nothing quite so precious.

Enjoy her to the full, they don't stay that age for long.
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Post by WestMidsClaret » Fri May 19, 2017 3:38 pm

Thanks funky. The little blighter is running circles around me!! We named her Rivver Rose. Thanks again to everyone who offered support and wrote kind words.

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Post by Sidney1st » Fri May 19, 2017 3:43 pm

You need to get her a hat, mine keeps stealing my Burnley hat all the time.
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Post by spadesclaret » Fri May 19, 2017 3:56 pm

So pleased for you, WestMids. Such a little beauty.
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Post by WestMidsClaret » Fri May 19, 2017 4:00 pm

Thank you Mrs Spades.
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Post by minnieclaret » Fri May 19, 2017 4:03 pm

Absolutely thrilled for all 3 of you. Happy days.
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Post by Corky » Fri May 19, 2017 4:24 pm

West Mids, you'll be fine. I was 41 when my son was born. He'll be 22 in a couple of months and as he is a strapping 6ft 3ins comes in handy when I foolishly decide to do a bit of DIY. He doesn't run out of steam as quickly as I do.
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