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What makes you happy?

Posted: Fri Apr 26, 2019 11:20 am
by LoveCurryPies
Having read the thread about depression, I started wondering what makes us happy. Not a superficial temporary happiness but something that brings you real happiness day after day.

I think my answer might be the pride I feel because my daughter is a nurse. She works on the Heart Unit in a major hospital and deals with life and sadly death everyday.

Yours?

Re: What makes you happy?

Posted: Fri Apr 26, 2019 11:35 am
by theroyaldyche
Bastards losing

Re: What makes you happy?

Posted: Fri Apr 26, 2019 11:37 am
by Pstotto
You'reappyI'mappy...

I think it's the wrong word to use for adult human life on Earth.

Both having a sense of self in terms of fulfilling one's function as what one is, brings a sense of certainty and also losing oneself in something greater, like being a part of a crowd or swimming in the sea or walking on a mountain can bring absolution.

Both are forms of dynamic peace for giving a feeling of being an integral part of a holistic cosmology.

Re: What makes you happy?

Posted: Fri Apr 26, 2019 11:38 am
by Lord Beamish
A good bowel movement.

Re: What makes you happy?

Posted: Fri Apr 26, 2019 11:38 am
by bfccrazy
LoveCurryPies wrote:Having read the thread about depression, I started wondering what makes us happy. Not a superficial temporary happiness but something that brings you real happiness day after day.

I think my answer might be the pride I feel because my daughter is a nurse. She works on the Heart Unit in a major hospital and deals with life and sadly death everyday.

Yours?
I love to see family and good friends doing well in life.
A Burnley win.
A ba$tards loss.
Holidays.
Just getting together with friends and having a laugh.

Re: What makes you happy?

Posted: Fri Apr 26, 2019 12:19 pm
by tim_noone
Freedom..

Re: What makes you happy?

Posted: Fri Apr 26, 2019 12:23 pm
by fatboy47
Other peoples' misfortunes mainly.

Re: What makes you happy?

Posted: Fri Apr 26, 2019 12:25 pm
by Dyched
**** all. I’m a misserable ****

Re: What makes you happy?

Posted: Fri Apr 26, 2019 12:29 pm
by Rick_Muller
Lord Beamish wrote:A good bowel movement.
that's just sh!t mate, but if it makes you happy... ;)

Re: What makes you happy?

Posted: Fri Apr 26, 2019 12:39 pm
by Steve1956
My recent retirement and relocating in Scotland,I'm a happy bunny now.Miss going on the Turf though.

Re: What makes you happy?

Posted: Fri Apr 26, 2019 1:18 pm
by Falcon
Dopamine
Endorphins
Serotonin

Re: What makes you happy?

Posted: Fri Apr 26, 2019 1:18 pm
by Falcon
More seriously

Quality time with friends & family
Holidays
Exercise
Burnley goals

Re: What makes you happy?

Posted: Fri Apr 26, 2019 1:26 pm
by Midmoorclaret
Clapping seems to work for most of us!

Re: What makes you happy?

Posted: Fri Apr 26, 2019 1:29 pm
by ClaretAndJew
It's hard to quantify for me what makes me feel happy. There's nothing I could pinpoint right now and say if I had this I would be happy.

I take it on a daily basis and just take my emotions as they are. I do of course get pleasure out of things but those things don't always make me happy.

Re: What makes you happy?

Posted: Fri Apr 26, 2019 1:43 pm
by cricketfieldclarets
Life!

Re: What makes you happy?

Posted: Fri Apr 26, 2019 2:35 pm
by houseboy
This is an age old philosopical question, debated since the time of the Greeks and beyond. It is more difficult to answer than would at first appear because happiness is difficult to define in itself. Is happiness a fleeting thing felt from the immediate sense of elation you may get from, say, Burnley scoring a goal? Is it more intermediate as in the sense of peace and tranquility you might get from maybe spending a few days in the mountains? Or is it that which seems to last (although few things ever do in an ever-changing life), such as a generally good life? Happiness (or the good as Plato would have had it) is the goal of life but, because all are doomed to die that goal will always be met with ultimate failure.

Happiness, however you define it, will never last because it is subject to change, as are all things, and as such will never and can never have permanence. All we can ever do is enjoy those moments or longer periods of time when we feel at our best, for whatever reason.

I find I'm at my happiest about 10 seconds after sex - for about another 10 seconds.

Re: What makes you happy?

Posted: Fri Apr 26, 2019 2:44 pm
by pushpinpussy
Brexit

Re: What makes you happy?

Posted: Fri Apr 26, 2019 2:45 pm
by Tribesmen
Backpacking if I am really honest .
Look long time ago but today it's the night before I am due to travel somewhere that I have never been before just love the feeling of something new to discover .

Re: What makes you happy?

Posted: Fri Apr 26, 2019 3:18 pm
by cricketfieldclarets
houseboy wrote:This is an age old philosopical question, debated since the time of the Greeks and beyond. It is more difficult to answer than would at first appear because happiness is difficult to define in itself. Is happiness a fleeting thing felt from the immediate sense of elation you may get from, say, Burnley scoring a goal? Is it more intermediate as in the sense of peace and tranquility you might get from maybe spending a few days in the mountains? Or is it that which seems to last (although few things ever do in an ever-changing life), such as a generally good life? Happiness (or the good as Plato would have had it) is the goal of life but, because all are doomed to die that goal will always be met with ultimate failure.

Happiness, however you define it, will never last because it is subject to change, as are all things, and as such will never and can never have permanence. All we can ever do is enjoy those moments or longer periods of time when we feel at our best, for whatever reason.

I find I'm at my happiest about 10 seconds after sex - for about another 10 seconds.
Think based on that, the word is contentment rather than happiness?!

Re: What makes you happy?

Posted: Fri Apr 26, 2019 3:21 pm
by Steve1956
houseboy wrote:This is an age old philosopical question, debated since the time of the Greeks and beyond. It is more difficult to answer than would at first appear because happiness is difficult to define in itself. Is happiness a fleeting thing felt from the immediate sense of elation you may get from, say, Burnley scoring a goal? Is it more intermediate as in the sense of peace and tranquility you might get from maybe spending a few days in the mountains? Or is it that which seems to last (although few things ever do in an ever-changing life), such as a generally good life? Happiness (or the good as Plato would have had it) is the goal of life but, because all are doomed to die that goal will always be met with ultimate failure.

Happiness, however you define it, will never last because it is subject to change, as are all things, and as such will never and can never have permanence. All we can ever do is enjoy those moments or longer periods of time when we feel at our best, for whatever reason.

I find I'm at my happiest about 10 seconds after sex - for about another 10 seconds.
I find I'm happy for 10 seconds while I'm actually having sex :lol:

Re: What makes you happy?

Posted: Fri Apr 26, 2019 3:23 pm
by bfcjg
Family in good health and content,all else just superficial.

Re: What makes you happy?

Posted: Fri Apr 26, 2019 3:26 pm
by chorleyhere
Bright blue skies with sunshine but not too hot, panoramic views with hills and mountains in the background, my wife and family to share these moments with good health all round - general peacefulness.

Re: What makes you happy?

Posted: Fri Apr 26, 2019 3:32 pm
by houseboy
Steve1956 wrote:I find I'm happy for 10 seconds while I'm actually having sex :lol:
FFS Steve, what are you on to last that long?

Re: What makes you happy?

Posted: Fri Apr 26, 2019 3:34 pm
by houseboy
chorleyhere wrote:Bright blue skies with sunshine but not too hot, panoramic views with hills and mountains in the background, my wife and family to share these moments with good health all round - general peacefulness.
I think if I had to define it I'd put pretty much what you have mate.

Re: What makes you happy?

Posted: Fri Apr 26, 2019 3:56 pm
by Bosscat
Lord Beamish wrote:A good bowel movement.
Woble ... thats a bowel movement

Re: What makes you happy?

Posted: Fri Apr 26, 2019 3:57 pm
by Bosscat
houseboy wrote:FFS Steve, what are you on to last that long?
That includes foreplay according to Mrs Steve56 house m8 :lol:

Re: What makes you happy?

Posted: Fri Apr 26, 2019 4:24 pm
by Vegas Claret
Ashley Barnes

Re: What makes you happy?

Posted: Fri Apr 26, 2019 4:47 pm
by Claret Toni
Ashley Barnes
Vegas, Ashley is for another. Guess you weren't at the Cardiff game.

Re: What makes you happy?

Posted: Fri Apr 26, 2019 4:59 pm
by Tricky Trevor
1. Family
2. Clarets
3. Live music

Re: What makes you happy?

Posted: Fri Apr 26, 2019 5:04 pm
by tim_noone
cricketfieldclarets wrote:Life!
Is that your sentence.....or Life in general? :?

Re: What makes you happy?

Posted: Fri Apr 26, 2019 5:57 pm
by Steve1956
houseboy wrote:FFS Steve, what are you on to last that long?
Alcohol :)

Re: What makes you happy?

Posted: Fri Apr 26, 2019 5:57 pm
by Steve1956
Bosscat wrote:That includes foreplay according to Mrs Steve56 house m8 :lol:
:lol:

Re: What makes you happy?

Posted: Fri Apr 26, 2019 6:27 pm
by Alanstevensonsgloves
Seeing my 6 year old daughter laugh uncontrollably

Re: What makes you happy?

Posted: Fri Apr 26, 2019 6:32 pm
by jdrobbo
My good lady wife

Most things BFC

Teaching underprivileged children in their final year at Primary School.

Teaching kids to sing (121 of them at present).

Harmonising to my favourite songs.

Sausage and mash

Lancashire bearing Yorkshire

Throwing a 180 or making a birdie.

Sleep

Re: What makes you happy?

Posted: Fri Apr 26, 2019 6:53 pm
by karatekid
When I find a new job and tell my current boss to **** Off. I expect the moments after that will be amongst the happiest of my life so far. ;)

Re: What makes you happy?

Posted: Fri Apr 26, 2019 6:57 pm
by karatekid
Sitting at the airport bar with a pint having got through security and got rid of the suitcases with a full fortnight in the sun beckoning is also a great happy feeling. 8-)

Re: What makes you happy?

Posted: Fri Apr 26, 2019 6:58 pm
by karatekid
If I could combine the two it would be orgasmic :D

Re: What makes you happy?

Posted: Fri Apr 26, 2019 7:08 pm
by Vegas Claret
Claret Toni wrote:Vegas, Ashley is for another. Guess you weren't at the Cardiff game.
:lol: :lol: :lol: true !

Re: What makes you happy?

Posted: Fri Apr 26, 2019 8:36 pm
by crundale
Today. Dropped about a few pubs. Met many friends. Been picked up by the other half and taken home. She lit the fire and started to cook. Very much aware that it not always like this for me and you though. Enjoy the moment...if you can.

Re: What makes you happy?

Posted: Fri Apr 26, 2019 8:55 pm
by Sarum
Clapping.

Re: What makes you happy?

Posted: Fri Apr 26, 2019 11:48 pm
by Millertime v1.7
falling asleep with Mario on my chest is life affirming

Re: What makes you happy?

Posted: Sat Apr 27, 2019 1:01 am
by Bop
I’m happy and full of respect that Liz Hurley’s never done a “kiss & tell” about me.

Re: What makes you happy?

Posted: Sat Apr 27, 2019 1:05 am
by Millertime v1.7
Mate, what do you think about Hurleys relationship with her son Damian? VERY strange stuff going on there

Re: What makes you happy?

Posted: Sat Apr 27, 2019 1:10 am
by Bop
666

Re: What makes you happy?

Posted: Sat Apr 27, 2019 4:01 am
by Covclaret
Watching my boys playing sport. Spent many hours on the sidelines at training or games and I love it. Today is a huge day, and I'm not sure if I'm going to feel happy or terrified. My two boys play in the top hockey league in Western Australia. Youngest son made his debut last week, and today they play against each other for the first time, both of them in goal. I guess a 0-0 would make me happiest.

Re: What makes you happy?

Posted: Sat Apr 27, 2019 11:34 am
by Woonderbah
Watching David Dunn's 'rabona'

Re: What makes you happy?

Posted: Sat Apr 27, 2019 1:49 pm
by Wuggawumphwumph
Sex

Re: What makes you happy?

Posted: Sun Apr 28, 2019 6:45 am
by Covclaret
Following on from what I posted yesterday...…

Getting an email to confirm CovClaret junior has been selected into the Australia Under 21's. They are off to Spain in June to play against Spain, Holland, Germany, India, Belgium, Austria and England.

Does any one know if the light blue shorts we wore last week are available to buy anywhere? Jnr wears a pair of my old blue Burnley shorts over his pads but they are getting worn out and want to replace them. Last year he wore Burnley shorts instead of official Australia kit at the youth Olympics - he reckons they are lucky.

Re: What makes you happy?

Posted: Sun Apr 28, 2019 10:19 am
by Pimlico_Claret
The Premier league without Leeds in it.