Page 1 of 2

My dad died today

Posted: Mon Dec 16, 2024 4:28 pm
by distortiondave
I think quite a few of you will have known him or had dealings with him over the years. David Hothersall, or Oz.
You may have bought spare parts off him over the last 50 years at Belgrave St in Nelson, Euronics in Barrowford and Colne, and quite a few of you would have had drinks with him back when Nelson still had pubs and clubs, or in the Dragon, Bridge or White Bear in barrowford, Emmott in Laneshawbridge and latterly colne Wetherspoons.

He was only 71 but had cancer of the everything so it's not unexpected, but he was a big Burnley fan, worked hard, tremendously funny, enjoyed a pint of normal working man's and a woodbine and always good company.

Re: My dad died today

Posted: Mon Dec 16, 2024 4:30 pm
by Quickenthetempo
Sorry for your loss Dave.

Rest in peace Claret

Re: My dad died today

Posted: Mon Dec 16, 2024 4:31 pm
by daveisaclaret
Really sorry to hear that, Dave.

Re: My dad died today

Posted: Mon Dec 16, 2024 4:31 pm
by claretonthecoast1882
Sorry to hear of your loss Dave, your Dad helped out a few family members over the years with parts.

RIP

Re: My dad died today

Posted: Mon Dec 16, 2024 4:37 pm
by ClaretTony
So, sorry to hear this news Dave.

Re: My dad died today

Posted: Mon Dec 16, 2024 4:37 pm
by elwaclaret
Really sorry to hear this DD, although we have never met in person (to my knowledge) I remember your support when I tried to launch my model accessories Business and our other conversations. I therefore consider you a friend. My thoughts are with you and yours at this terrible time. thinking of you all. Stay strong and God Bless you all and your father. X

Re: My dad died today

Posted: Mon Dec 16, 2024 4:38 pm
by DAVETHEVICAR
Really so sorry to hear of your Dad’s passing, Dave
He sounded a top guy
Thoughts are with you and your family and friends

Re: My dad died today

Posted: Mon Dec 16, 2024 4:42 pm
by Bosscat
Sorry to hear of your loss dd ... its never easy losing a parent or sibling but you will always have your memories ...

We lost a brother at age 71 just 3 years ago (Martin was an ST holder at TM, and sat next to me for 6 years after retiring back to the village here after our Mum died).
Our sister posted a picture on on our whatsapp group of a Musical Christmas tree her Daughter-in-law had given to Martin 20 years ago ... she had decorated in his memory (he sort of hated it because ... we always wound it up when we visited his house, and it drove him mad, but because Deborah gave it to him he tolerated it) its brought back many memories and gave me a huge smile of away trips following the Clarets.
Thoughts with you and your family dd.
RIP David Hothersall UTC

Re: My dad died today

Posted: Mon Dec 16, 2024 4:43 pm
by Blyclaret
I dont know your dad …only read your posts here. Deepest sympathy to you and your family. May your dad rest in peace.

Re: My dad died today

Posted: Mon Dec 16, 2024 4:47 pm
by Elizabeth
I had a cancer bereavement as recently as August and lost a loved one. My heart goes out to you. Your description of him is of a man of great character and the memories you have of him will be of great comfort x

Re: My dad died today

Posted: Mon Dec 16, 2024 4:48 pm
by CoolClaret
I'm so sorry to hear this, DD. I hope the festive period allows you to be close with your family as you grieve the loss of your father.

My deepest condolences.

Re: My dad died today

Posted: Mon Dec 16, 2024 4:50 pm
by Woodleyclaret
Sorry for your loss Dave it's our first Christmas without our son .Duncan aged 49 passed away in October also BFC season ticket holder like us.Remember the good times you had together. A bit trite but we've found it helps.

Re: My dad died today

Posted: Mon Dec 16, 2024 5:02 pm
by Silkyskills1
Sorry to hear this. Sounds like a decent chap who lived a good life. 71 still too early though. RIP.

Re: My dad died today

Posted: Mon Dec 16, 2024 5:13 pm
by quoonbeatz
Really sorry to hear this, DD, he sounds a sound guy.

Re: My dad died today

Posted: Mon Dec 16, 2024 5:14 pm
by Bosscat
Just been put on the BFC website the "in memoriam" for 17th of Jan Sunderland home game ... for Clarets who have passed away in the past year ...

Re: My dad died today

Posted: Mon Dec 16, 2024 5:16 pm
by Claret Till I Die
Sorry for your loss pal

Re: My dad died today

Posted: Mon Dec 16, 2024 5:19 pm
by Tricky Trevor
RIP Oz. Condolences to yourself and all family & friends, Dave.

Re: My dad died today

Posted: Mon Dec 16, 2024 5:23 pm
by JohnMac
Condolences to you and your family Dave.

Re: My dad died today

Posted: Mon Dec 16, 2024 5:25 pm
by Poulton-le-Claret
Awful news and an awful time of year to lose someone. Sending all my best to you and your family DD. I hope you have people around you to support you through this difficult time.

RIP Oz

Re: My dad died today

Posted: Mon Dec 16, 2024 5:32 pm
by jos
My condolences, R.I.P. Oz.

Re: My dad died today

Posted: Mon Dec 16, 2024 5:36 pm
by Jel
Really sorry to hear this. I knew him from the Dragon, amongst other places. I particularly remember his wierd postcards to the Dragon, from his holidays. One that comes to mind was his description of sitting on a beach in Greece, and digging bones out of the sand. What a strange card. RIP Dave

Re: My dad died today

Posted: Mon Dec 16, 2024 6:02 pm
by dandeclaret
Sorry to hear DD…. Look after yourself.

Re: My dad died today

Posted: Mon Dec 16, 2024 6:10 pm
by ecc
Very sorry to read this news, Dave. Not always, as more and more ladies go to matches as well as playing the game, but very often you follow the club your Dad followed. I had no choice despite living 250 miles south of TM, but am very glad to have had a father who supported a non-media friendly club.

You dread losing your loved ones and irrespective of the age and, in your case, the knowledge that your Dad was dying, it is still an unbelievable blow.

Thoughts and prayers with you and your family.

Re: My dad died today

Posted: Mon Dec 16, 2024 6:13 pm
by Anonymous Claret
Sorry for your loss DD
RIP to your dad

Re: My dad died today

Posted: Mon Dec 16, 2024 6:25 pm
by Lip
Sorry for your loss,..RIP Oz.

Re: My dad died today

Posted: Mon Dec 16, 2024 6:26 pm
by Rowls
Really sorry for your loss distortiondave.

RIP

Re: My dad died today

Posted: Mon Dec 16, 2024 6:33 pm
by Herts Clarets
Sorry to hear your sad news DD. I used to live in Belgrave St and remember the electrical shop. The paper shop on the corner opposite was run by Frank and Margaret Hothersall early 80s, are you related to them?

Re: My dad died today

Posted: Mon Dec 16, 2024 6:36 pm
by IanMcL
Lost a friend last week. I am 71 too.

Dad is dad. Huge condolences.

Re: My dad died today

Posted: Mon Dec 16, 2024 6:52 pm
by beddie
He sounded to be a great character Dave. You will miss him. My sincere condolences to you and your family.

Re: My dad died today

Posted: Mon Dec 16, 2024 6:53 pm
by ALP
Your Dad sorted me out with parts quite a few times, a cracking man.

So sorry to read of him passing away, may he rest in peace; sincere condolences to you and your family.

Re: My dad died today

Posted: Mon Dec 16, 2024 6:56 pm
by helmclaret
Sorry to hear this Dave.

Re: My dad died today

Posted: Mon Dec 16, 2024 7:00 pm
by Goddy
DD - so sorry to hear about your dad. He sounds a top bloke.

Take care of yourself and I hope you/your family and friends all pull together....and maybe, in time, smile when you think of the good and, hopefully, amusing times you had with your dad.

Re: My dad died today

Posted: Mon Dec 16, 2024 7:03 pm
by bfcjg
Sorry for your loss, he's at peace and pain free now. RIP.

Re: My dad died today

Posted: Mon Dec 16, 2024 7:21 pm
by Taffy on the wing
Sorry for your loss.

Re: My dad died today

Posted: Mon Dec 16, 2024 7:41 pm
by bodge
Karen and I are really sorry to hear this news dd, we always remember you and your Dad filing into your row in the BL near us.

Take care and remember the laughs you had together.

Re: My dad died today

Posted: Mon Dec 16, 2024 7:42 pm
by tally
My condolences to you DD
Life is tough sometimes but keep your chin up fellah

Re: My dad died today

Posted: Mon Dec 16, 2024 7:46 pm
by Juan Tanamera
Condolences Dave.
(Same age as myself)
RIP to your dad. 🙏

Re: My dad died today

Posted: Mon Dec 16, 2024 8:00 pm
by Goalposts
Sorry to hear that Dave.

I do wonder whether we should have a in memoriam tab in the announcements section of UTC to mark such moments. For posters and fellow clarets.
It feels like an appropriate thing to consider. Just an idea

Re: My dad died today

Posted: Mon Dec 16, 2024 8:02 pm
by HollandsPies
Condolences there DD.

RIP.

Re: My dad died today

Posted: Mon Dec 16, 2024 8:04 pm
by lakedistrictclaret
Condolences, Dave. Far too young.

Re: My dad died today

Posted: Mon Dec 16, 2024 8:05 pm
by Andreshotboots
Thoughts are with you and your family at this very sad time..

Re: My dad died today

Posted: Mon Dec 16, 2024 8:07 pm
by Cirrus_Minor
Awful to lose a parent, my condolences

Re: My dad died today

Posted: Mon Dec 16, 2024 8:43 pm
by distortiondave
Herts Clarets wrote:
Mon Dec 16, 2024 6:33 pm
Sorry to hear your sad news DD. I used to live in Belgrave St and remember the electrical shop. The paper shop on the corner opposite was run by Frank and Margaret Hothersall early 80s, are you related to them?
Yep, my grandma and grandad. They eventually had the paper shop opposite the Crown in Colne, back when cans of pop were more expensive than cigarettes.
Grandad Frank was nuttier than a fruitcake, but eventually he moved to Fence and bought a bungalow that came with its own full size electric pylon in the garden.
Years later, after he'd died, we delivered a machine to next door, and I remarked to the owner that my grandad used to live to next door, to which she replied 'Frank? He never had any clothes on, did he?!' and it turns out he'd just been nudebathing under the basking glow of the electric pylon for years, in full view of the neighbours.

Re: My dad died today

Posted: Mon Dec 16, 2024 8:44 pm
by Lubanski
Condolences Dave. Difficult time for you, hope the memories of better times with him help.

Re: My dad died today

Posted: Mon Dec 16, 2024 8:54 pm
by Rileybobs
Very sorry for your loss, DD. Best wishes.

Re: My dad died today

Posted: Mon Dec 16, 2024 9:20 pm
by Buxtonclaret
Sorry for your loss, DD
Thought with you & yours.
R.I.P

Re: My dad died today

Posted: Mon Dec 16, 2024 9:22 pm
by Loyalclaret
Goalposts wrote:
Mon Dec 16, 2024 8:00 pm
Sorry to hear that Dave.

I do wonder whether we should have a in memoriam tab in the announcements section of UTC to mark such moments. For posters and fellow clarets.
It feels like an appropriate thing to consider. Just an idea
Sorry for your loss Dave.

I have seen similar things on other boards Goalposts, I think Blackpool have one.

RIP Oz

Re: My dad died today

Posted: Mon Dec 16, 2024 9:46 pm
by Claretmisterg
Condolences Dave. I also lived in Belgrave street for a while in the early eighties. Your Dad was always very helpful when looking for spare parts.

Re: My dad died today

Posted: Mon Dec 16, 2024 9:55 pm
by louieollie
Sorry for your loss DD
Condolences to you and your family.

Re: My dad died today

Posted: Mon Dec 16, 2024 10:00 pm
by Wo Didi
Sincere condolences DD your dad sounds a great character, I lost my Claret mad dad in April it's a cruel world at times. Wishing you all the best and hopefully you can be around your family, I had to leave the UK to be with mine and they bring a lot of comfort. RIP.