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Playing music on public transport
Posted: Sat May 17, 2025 12:12 pm
by JellyBaby
The other day I went nuts at someone on the metro (I don't live in the UK). It was at night and not many people in the carriage and I asked him first to please use earphones, as the poster above his head said. He said he didn't have any. I then said can you turn it off then. He said 'why should I?' So I went mad, verbally. A lot of effing and jeffing, not about him but 'why should we have to effing listen to your effing music etc.' I was quite aggressive towards him through pointing and language, although a few feet away. I've never been in a fight and rarely raise my voice. I'm not happy with how I handled it but it had been coming. For months and months.
I don't know what to do about it and I don't know how to handle these situations. It's beyond a pet hate for me. I see it as arrogance and ignorance of other people to play music like this, but then I was also ignorant of everyone else the other day. I've contacted the metro company in the past to say something should be done. But I don't know what can be done. Everyone I speak to agrees it's bad but I've never seen anyone else ask people to stop doing it. I've asked several times but not always as it's so frequent and I'm so exhausted with it. I know if I ask the wrong person I could have problems but it infuriates me so much, I don't know why. I wasn't right to go mad but what can be done? Do I have to accept this as part of society now?
Re: Playing music on public transport
Posted: Sat May 17, 2025 12:28 pm
by Beagle
https://www.bbc.com/news/articles/cly5g7v2qddo
The Lib Dems’ proposed solution was quite a big story over here the other week.
Re: Playing music on public transport
Posted: Sat May 17, 2025 12:29 pm
by lakedistrictclaret
I agree entirely. It’s selfishness personified.
I’m not confrontational by nature, so I content myself with disapproving glances, but it doesn’t seem to work.
Re: Playing music on public transport
Posted: Sat May 17, 2025 12:43 pm
by IanMcL
What can be as bad, is the tinny sound you can hear, sitting next to someone with ear pieces, who has the volume maxed!
Re: Playing music on public transport
Posted: Sat May 17, 2025 2:16 pm
by bobinho
It’s rude and selfish. You did right confronting the scrote…
Re: Playing music on public transport
Posted: Sat May 17, 2025 2:33 pm
by cockneyclaret
Totally agree JB..
I have to sit on my hands and bite my lip..
In my mind I would have grabbed the device and stamped on it
Re: Playing music on public transport
Posted: Sat May 17, 2025 2:51 pm
by Pickles
Put them in jail.
Re: Playing music on public transport
Posted: Sat May 17, 2025 3:00 pm
by elwaclaret
I’ll be honest I find myself doing most things these days based on when I will encounter the least number of arrogant and ignorant people, from driving to shopping, even walking the dogs. It seems that consideration is an old fashioned idea in a world where most people seem to think of ‘self’ first and last.
Re: Playing music on public transport
Posted: Sat May 17, 2025 3:09 pm
by fidelcastro
It should be treated with the same severity as smoking on public transport.
Everyone knows not to do that anymore, so let's make this as equally unacceptable.
A few fines to someone selfish gits should do the trick!
Re: Playing music on public transport
Posted: Sat May 17, 2025 3:25 pm
by fidelcastro
fidelcastro wrote: ↑Sat May 17, 2025 3:09 pm
It should be treated with the same severity as smoking on public transport.
Everyone knows not to do that anymore, so let's make this as equally unacceptable.
A few fines to someone selfish gits should do the trick!
Edit: some not someone!
Re: Playing music on public transport
Posted: Sat May 17, 2025 3:32 pm
by Tricky Trevor
fidelcastro wrote: ↑Sat May 17, 2025 3:09 pm
It should be treated with the same severity as smoking on public transport.
Everyone knows not to do that anymore, so let's make this as equally unacceptable.
A few fines to someone selfish gits should do the trick!
If there is a fire extinguisher handy. Get it, shout “fire” and drench them.
Re: Playing music on public transport
Posted: Sat May 17, 2025 3:37 pm
by fidelcastro
Tricky Trevor wrote: ↑Sat May 17, 2025 3:32 pm
If there is a fire extinguisher handy. Get it, shout “fire” and drench them.
That should become law!
Re: Playing music on public transport
Posted: Sat May 17, 2025 3:49 pm
by Holtyclaret
If you had your own noise cancelling headphones playing a podcast or calming music may help, you’d be oblivious to it.
Not that you should have to.
Re: Playing music on public transport
Posted: Sat May 17, 2025 3:58 pm
by Tribesmen
I was on the train In Athens and some girl in front of me had this Andrew Tate stuff on ,like don't tell me what to do and so on .
I just stuck me head and took my hearing aid out .
Why fight it's what they want .
Re: Playing music on public transport
Posted: Sun May 18, 2025 11:20 am
by Dazzler
What is more irritating is when a person plays music sung in a language other than English.
Re: Playing music on public transport
Posted: Sun May 18, 2025 1:10 pm
by JellyBaby
Yep, the music is always awful and often it's just people scrolling through social media playing videos etc.
I've tried the headphones thing but as mentioned, why should I have to ? I usually do anyway but like the other day I wasn't on my own so I wasn't going to use them.
The time before I'd asked someone to use earphones who was just listening to the radio she said 'no I won't' and then went on to explain how she was doing us a favour because they were talking about the news on the radio channel so I was being informed and it was useful for me. I'm getting annoyed just writing about it!
Re: Playing music on public transport
Posted: Sun May 18, 2025 1:17 pm
by Rowls
A lot of people don't seem to understand why seemingly trivial matters like this are so important.
The Lib Dems had the right kind of idea with this but it's already against the law. We don't need new laws - we need proper enforcement of existing laws until they return to being social norms.
Re: Playing music on public transport
Posted: Sun May 18, 2025 2:45 pm
by Claretincraven
In my local last night, and the couple at the next table thought it appropriate to make a couple of video calls to mates, with it all on speaker mode so the whole pub could hear. Soon got told by me to turn it down. But it’s my mate in Australia, was the excuse. Wouldn’t mind but there’s a large beer garden outside that was virtually empty. Some people are born selfish.
Re: Playing music on public transport
Posted: Sun May 18, 2025 4:22 pm
by bigdavethemaddog
annoying just like people been on their phones when getting served in shops which is rude and ignorant
Re: Playing music on public transport
Posted: Sat May 24, 2025 1:00 am
by Dressinggown
Society has completely changed.
The norms have gone and are likely to get worse.
Me, me, me, look at me, I'm interesting. Even in pubs there are groups of people shouting so they can be heard whilst posting their crap on social media.
I regularly use public transport and the stuff I have witnessed is beyond belief. Teenage lasses taking 'selfies' of their female parts to post online was probably the worst.
Has the world gone wrong ?
Re: Playing music on public transport
Posted: Sat May 24, 2025 1:08 am
by Taffy on the wing
Dazzler wrote: ↑Sun May 18, 2025 11:20 am
What is more irritating is when a person plays music sung in a language other than English.
........Send 'em to Rwanda!..
Re: Playing music on public transport
Posted: Sat May 24, 2025 7:22 am
by Longsider
For me almost as bad as playing music are the continuous automated announcements on my local train journey to work every morning. There are 8 stops on a twenty minute journey. There are sometimes up to 40 announcements during this short journey. For every stop we have. Welcome aboard this train, This train is stopping at...., The next stop is .. we are now approaching...When alighting the train mind the gap.... If you see something see it say it sort it.....
It completely ruins the journey experience for me. I have written to the train company and complained. They have said they need to do it for sight impaired people. I get that some announcements are necessary but I highlighted this was massive overkill. I suggested it would be preferable to have the guard make some of the announcements, they don't do a lot else This got no reply.
I I tend to keep trying with the complaints to see if they can adjust this sensory overload.
Re: Playing music on public transport
Posted: Sat May 24, 2025 8:59 am
by Jeffbfc
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Always works for me
Re: Playing music on public transport
Posted: Sat May 24, 2025 9:16 am
by Roosterbooster
Dazzler wrote: ↑Sun May 18, 2025 11:20 am
What is more irritating is when a person plays music sung in a language other than English.
Yeah I don't mind hearing baby shark at max volume on the train
No issues with that
But if someone were to play Nessun Dorma I think I'd just throttle 'em
Re: Playing music on public transport
Posted: Sat May 24, 2025 9:19 am
by fatboy47
Dazzler wrote: ↑Sun May 18, 2025 11:20 am
What is more irritating is when a person plays music sung in a language other than English.
You get arrested and thrown in gaol if it's English though.
Re: Playing music on public transport
Posted: Sat May 24, 2025 10:12 am
by Venkys4eva
If you think its bad on a bus you should try being on a hospital ward at 2am when you haven't slept for 2 days and 2 or 3 are listening to different things at once.
Re: Playing music on public transport
Posted: Sat May 24, 2025 10:25 am
by The Hung Juror
In a similar vein.
My family went out for a meal at an Indian restaurant last night. Sat a few tables away was a youngish couple with a boy of about 4 or 5, they had finished their meals and were having a drink. The little lad was watching a film on his laptop with the volume turned right up. The restaurant is very large and it was very busy, so there was plenty of background noise. Nevertheless everyone within about 12 feet could clearly hear the film he was watching. In addition and unsurprisingly, the couple were both on their mobiles.
It really grinds my gears how oblivious some people are to common courtesy and decency.
Re: Playing music on public transport
Posted: Sat May 24, 2025 11:32 am
by Dressinggown
A bloke on the bus last night got on with a kebab, forgot to unwrap it and then chewed through the paper before chucking the contents on the floor.
Re: Playing music on public transport
Posted: Sat May 24, 2025 11:48 am
by Dazzler
yeah, probably cheaper for the taxpayer.
Re: Playing music on public transport
Posted: Sat May 24, 2025 11:53 am
by Dazzler
Roosterbooster wrote: ↑Sat May 24, 2025 9:16 am
But if someone were to play Nessun Dorma I think I'd just throttle 'em
I was thinking more about what one is likely to endure when riding in a taxi.
Re: Playing music on public transport
Posted: Sun May 25, 2025 8:18 pm
by HurstGrangeClaret
I hate music or other noise being imposed on me.
For me,it’s the equivalent to goal music or music played upto kick off, at half time and full time while watching footy.
Prime example of that was the music at Wembley yesterday during and after the play off final. So intrusive and unnecessary.
Re: Playing music on public transport
Posted: Sun May 25, 2025 8:39 pm
by boatshed bill
I like a bit of jazz, so if that was his choice I'd probably say thanks
Re: Playing music on public transport
Posted: Sun May 25, 2025 8:51 pm
by ClaretPete001
boatshed bill wrote: ↑Sun May 25, 2025 8:39 pm
I like a bit of jazz, so if that was his choice I'd probably say thanks
I think you need to spend more time out of your boatshed if you think someone on public transport is blasting out a bit of John Coltrane as a norm.
I've reached an age where I find anything that intrudes on my dissatisfaction with everything - is annoying.
I often think of that film where Michael Douglass goes into Maccy D's and pulls out a shotgun and shoots the place up because he wants a breakfast at 11:31 and it finishes at 11:30.
I've reached an age where I think that is a reasonable response to the situation. And thank to the WokeyBobs I'd probably get away with it given the police are so busy arresting people for Tweets.
Re: Playing music on public transport
Posted: Sun May 25, 2025 9:05 pm
by boatshed bill
ClaretPete001 wrote: ↑Sun May 25, 2025 8:51 pm
I think you need to spend more time out of your boatshed if you think someone on public transport is blasting out a bit of John Coltrane as a norm.
I've reached an age where I find anything that intrudes on my dissatisfaction with everything - is annoying.
I often think of that film where Michael Douglass goes into Maccy D's and pulls out a shotgun and shoots the place up because he wants a breakfast at 11:31 and it finishes at 11:30.
I've reached an age where I think that is a reasonable response to the situation. And thank to the WokeyBobs I'd probably get away with it given the police are so busy arresting people for Tweets.
I never get wound up, Pete, it's just not worth it.
Re: Playing music on public transport
Posted: Sun May 25, 2025 9:07 pm
by fidelcastro
ClaretPete001 wrote: ↑Sun May 25, 2025 8:51 pm
I've reached an age where I think that is a reasonable response to the situation. And thank to the WokeyBobs I'd probably get away with it given the police are so busy arresting people for Tweets.
Yeah. You're bound to get away with waving a firearm around
Re: Playing music on public transport
Posted: Sun May 25, 2025 9:09 pm
by Bosscat
ClaretPete001 wrote: ↑Sun May 25, 2025 8:51 pm
I think you need to spend more time out of your boatshed if you think someone on public transport is blasting out a bit of John Coltrane as a norm.
I've reached an age where I find anything that intrudes on my dissatisfaction with everything - is annoying.
I often think of that film where Michael Douglass goes into Maccy D's and pulls out a shotgun and shoots the place up because he wants a breakfast at 11:31 and it finishes at 11:30.
I've reached an age where I think that is a reasonable response to the situation. And thank to the WokeyBobs I'd probably get away with it given the police are so busy arresting people for Tweets.
Good film pete
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Re: Playing music on public transport
Posted: Mon May 26, 2025 8:30 am
by ClaretPete001
fidelcastro wrote: ↑Sun May 25, 2025 9:07 pm
Yeah. You're bound to get away with waving a firearm around
I 'm being admonished by Fidel Castro for waving a firearm around....! Only on UTC....!
Re: Playing music on public transport
Posted: Mon May 26, 2025 9:28 am
by Poulton-le-Claret
It might be easier to just merge the zebra crossing thread with this one and call it 'the inconsiderate a***holes thread'
Re: Playing music on public transport
Posted: Mon May 26, 2025 11:54 am
by Conroy92
While I look on some of the comments on this thread and think some of the things are mildly irritant. There are also other situations in which I can't help but feel people are overreacting.
Ultimately, they are are all third world problems and if they are your biggest stressers, then count yourself lucky.
Re: Playing music on public transport
Posted: Mon May 26, 2025 2:40 pm
by kentonclaret
JellyBaby wrote: ↑Sat May 17, 2025 12:12 pm
The other day I went nuts at someone on the metro (I don't live in the UK). It was at night and not many people in the carriage and I asked him first to please use earphones, as the poster above his head said. He said he didn't have any. I then said can you turn it off then. He said 'why should I?' So I went mad, verbally. A lot of effing and jeffing, not about him but 'why should we have to effing listen to your effing music etc.' I was quite aggressive towards him through pointing and language, although a few feet away. I've never been in a fight and rarely raise my voice. I'm not happy with how I handled it but it had been coming. For months and months.
I don't know what to do about it and I don't know how to handle these situations. It's beyond a pet hate for me. I see it as arrogance and ignorance of other people to play music like this, but then I was also ignorant of everyone else the other day. I've contacted the metro company in the past to say something should be done. But I don't know what can be done. Everyone I speak to agrees it's bad but I've never seen anyone else ask people to stop doing it. I've asked several times but not always as it's so frequent and I'm so exhausted with it. I know if I ask the wrong person I could have problems but it infuriates me so much, I don't know why. I wasn't right to go mad but what can be done? Do I have to accept this as part of society now?
Sounds as though you were fortunate that your aggressive behaviour was not filmed by another passenger as many people have found themselves in hot water over situations such as you describe.
Perhaps leaving the train at the next station and moving to the next carriage is an option worth considering if you are struggling to control your anger in the future?
