AndrewJB wrote:Addiction doesn't just harm the person who is addicted, as you've aptly illustrated. It harms everyone. And addiction runs far deeper in our society than the people we see who have become down and out as a result. Many addicts find ways of living with their addictions. Addiction often has physical outcomes, but it's a mental illness.
The human body - as amazing and complex as it is - has never evolved fast enough to keep up with our lifestyle changes over the last few hundred (or thousand) years. Our bodies react to stress the way they have for perhaps a million years or more - because for 99% of that time we faced a physical threat. We produce adrenaline, our pain receptors are nulled, and we're ready to fight or to flee. This has served us well (and kept us going) as a species, but when you apply stress to a person sitting at a desk - a deadline, and maybe some family problems as well - then it doesn't work anymore. In fact it makes things much worse.
There are a lot of ideas about what addiction is, but i see it as something that makes our caveman brain happy.
We can't change our bodies, but we can change the way we deal with stress. And if we can teach young people to deal with stress, then we might also be on the path to them dealing with addiction.
I can agree with most of that, things have changed, but differ in the responsibility for dealing with stress as a cause of addiction. Where does the stress come from, peers, bosses, family. Do we set unrealistic targets on ourselves. The young do seem to have this need to have the latest fad or gadget. I still maintain, whatever the circumstances the first port of call is family, friends and neighbours. That's what society, community should be about, and used to be. Those that disguise their addictions, and pretend they dont have a problem are more of a problem, as I said re my cousin, unless you admit the problem and accept you need help, there is nothing friends, family, neighbours or government can do.
You can try an intervention, but if it doesn't work you have very few roads left to go down. My cousin could be sectioned, extreme I know, but at least he wouldn't be able to drink. Then that would be argued as breaching his human rights. If he wants to drink himself to death, he has every right too.
I dont pretend it is easy, and would think it's a lot easier to teach people to deal with stress, and the dangers of addictions from birth, than trying to deal with the after effects. Again that should be a lesson taught by family and friends. Siblings, parents, partners, neighbours, teachers should look for signs, sometimes sharing a problem can make a world of difference.