
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ikqED_pzhZk
Walk down any High Street and you will soon realise that footballers are behaving like a large percentage of the younger generation today. Step aside or have a head on collision.
Correct. I have a son at home like that. Has now decided not to honour us with his presence at the weekend until lunchtime. Unless we’re going to an away game.kentonclaret wrote: ↑Mon May 01, 2023 3:22 pmWalk down any High Street and you will soon realise that footballers are behaving like a large percentage of the younger generation today. Step aside or have a head on collision.
It’s quite sad to see the little lad, politely waving at his heroes and hoping for nothing more than some acknowledgment.NRC wrote: ↑Mon May 01, 2023 2:50 pmLeeds fans outraged, and rightly so, after a video of the players ignoring a little boy, wearing a Leeds kit, who just wanted to have them wave to him as they left the team hotel, has gone viral. The club, to their credit have asked the parents to reach out...... but the Leeds fans calling for a headphones ban in their comments![]()
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ikqED_pzhZk
It was a rule with Dyche and it seems noticeable to me that the players who were here when he was manager still don't.
I personally agree with this ...however , whatever policies Kompany has put in place have ultimately worked a treat
I’ve noticed exactly the same thing Tony. You don’t get Barnes, Corky, Charlie, etc doing it. I get it’s a generational thing, I just think when getting off a bus and entering a stadium players can live without their music for a few minutes while they’re passing fans/staff and just engage with them a bit.ClaretTony wrote: ↑Mon May 01, 2023 4:28 pmIt was a rule with Dyche and it seems noticeable to me that the players who were here when he was manager still don't.
These lads aren't walking down the high street.kentonclaret wrote: ↑Mon May 01, 2023 3:22 pmWalk down any High Street and you will soon realise that footballers are behaving like a large percentage of the younger generation today. Step aside or have a head on collision.
He was spot on. Between the coach and the venue, take your headphones off. It's just a tiny ask. This is when you know who the proper players are... they're good lads who, at the minimum, smile and say hello.
If I was the parent, and I thought for one minute that by allowing them to reach out they’d learn from it, I’d happily get involved.DCWat wrote: ↑Mon May 01, 2023 3:42 pmIt’s quite sad to see the little lad, politely waving at his heroes and hoping for nothing more than some acknowledgment.
I get that all of the attention might, on occasion, become a bit tiresome, but there is no excuse for such ignorance.
It’s got nothing to do with phones or headphones, it’s solely about being a decent person.
My inclination, if I was his parent, would be to throw their reach out request back in their faces with some choice words. It’d only mean the little lad missing out again though, so probably not the right approach.
Hell, the way they’re performing, they should be going even further out of their way to keep fans on side. Tossers.
There's a time & a place & a long coach journey fair enough, but good manners off the coach you would take them off when engaging with friendly fans, the problems appear to be they seem to be constantly glued to ears.
Personally I don't think they are that precious and If that was the case they would be better wearing them during an away match and when leaving the pitch when the abuse is constant....aclaretinstevenage wrote: ↑Mon May 01, 2023 5:33 pmThe players wear the headphones on arrival to eliminate hearing derogatory or abusive shouts from the idiot factor allowing them to focus their minds on the job at hand rather than become enraged or worse embroiled in an argument with said idiots.
Imagine the Clarets arriving at Deadwood last Tuesday, the locals would not have been friendly would they.
I don't like it but I'm told by a pal who scouts for a midlands club that this is the reason players do it / are told to do it.
Well (respectfully) tell your pal he’s talking ********. No way on earth it has anything to do with “hurty words”. They have that all afternoon from the opposition fans.aclaretinstevenage wrote: ↑Mon May 01, 2023 5:33 pmThe players wear the headphones on arrival to eliminate hearing derogatory or abusive shouts from the idiot factor allowing them to focus their minds on the job at hand rather than become enraged or worse embroiled in an argument with said idiots.
Imagine the Clarets arriving at Deadwood last Tuesday, the locals would not have been friendly would they.
I don't like it but I'm told by a pal who scouts for a midlands club that this is the reason players do it / are told to do it.
The most dangerous time is when they cross the road! Neither Tufty nor the Green Cross Man reached them - or any other variant!kentonclaret wrote: ↑Mon May 01, 2023 3:22 pmWalk down any High Street and you will soon realise that footballers are behaving like a large percentage of the younger generation today. Step aside or have a head on collision.
Hate to say this to you Bob fella, but what you are asserting here is a bit "old man shouts at clouds".bobinho wrote: ↑Mon May 01, 2023 6:49 pmWell (respectfully) tell your pal he’s talking ********. No way on earth it has anything to do with “hurty words”. They have that all afternoon from the opposition fans.
They do it because they are generally ignorant, have no manners and can’t be arsed to engage with people.
What was the “job at hand” here? Getting on the bus?
Happens at loads of clubs, and with loads of players - and I’ve always thought it was ignorant and classless. I was always happy our lads didn’t do it. Yet another example of a touch of class brought to our club by SD.
Getting into “the zone” my arse…. It’s the height of ignorance.
********. It's about being a decent human being.BigGaz wrote: ↑Mon May 01, 2023 7:31 pmHate to say this to you Bob fella, but what you are asserting here is a bit "old man shouts at clouds".
There are clear, defined benefits to listening to music pre-game (and many other scenarios including pre-surgery, during study, after a stressful life event etc) and any football club that utilises a Sports Psychology function will almost certainly see their players under instruction to do many things pre and post game such as freeing their minds from distraction and visualising being successful in the game (or manifesting if you prefer). Music can be a really important tool in facilitating those kinds of desired mental outcomes and so it is encouraged. I know my partner encourages it with her clients.
A book and a couple of journals worth your time if you happen to be interested in the mechanics of it.
Inside Sport Psychology. Human Kinetics.
The effect of pre-task music on swimming performance. Journal of Sports Sciences, 27(2), 175-181.
Effects of self-selected music on strength, explosiveness, and mood. Journal of Strength and Conditioning Research, 26(7), 1934-1938.
Where I am with you is that I think it is less about the "hurty words". It is more just outside distraction, whether positive or negative.
Where I am also with you is that i think some of these lads could stand to learn some emotional intelligence skills about when or not it's appropriate to do so.
I am in full agreement there is a time and place for them to have their earphones on and be courteous to people.
Our Players also on a long journey engaged with lots of very Young fans after the Bristol game on Saturday ...plenty of happy smiling faces all roundJakubclaret wrote: ↑Mon May 01, 2023 6:05 pmThere's a time & a place & a long coach journey fair enough, but good manners off the coach you would take them off when engaging with friendly fans, the problems appear to be they seem to be constantly glued to ears.
That's exactly the way it should be, good memories are very important for an healthy child's cognitive development.Here's-Johnny wrote: ↑Mon May 01, 2023 8:11 pmOur Players also on a long journey engaged with lots of very Young fans after the Bristol game on Saturday ...plenty of happy smiling faces all round![]()
That’s just you though isn’t it? You can’t assume they are all feeling the same way you would and then chalk it off. Going “oh, they might be listening to whale noises because they are all scared shitless about doing what they’ve been doing every week for the last 1/2/5/10 years” is ridiculous.Spiral wrote: ↑Tue May 02, 2023 3:06 amNot gonna lie if I were an hour an a half away from playing a game in front of thousands of people I'd probably be $hitting my guts out, so I'd have whale noises, rainforest noises, whatever, anything to distract myself from my own neurotic thoughts, anything to stop me from vomiting. There are times I would've benefitted from it in the dentist waiting room. Can't imagine how stressful it would feel to play on TV and whatnot. Going "oh, they're paid a fortune to deal with that" is ridiculous. Take a million to stare a hungry lion in the face and tell me you're not still stressed.
And you can't assume they're not, so what the fk are we even doing here? I can almost hear the pitch of your register when bashing these posts out. I think you're overreacting and making yourself look silly.